Wandering Thoughts!

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We like things to remain the same. Constant. Stagnant. It gives us a false sense of illusion that all is safe. Everything in our control. It creates a false sense of security. Constant is also a choice we make in our life, just as similar as making a choice for CHANGE.

Why do people confuse honesty with weakness?

Sometimes its not the light that we want to recover, its the certainty that there is only darkness.

Why do we live our lives guided by fear of losing. Fear of losing people, wealth, fortune. Our every act is an act to protect us from that fear? And we expand this fear to the ones we love. All our relations are lived to protect it from losing it, rather for cherishing it. Is FEAR the way to live life?

Comments

Ashraf said…
that's so true man....
people like to be constant coz they feel that they can predict the future that way....
even though they might be wanting to make sum major changes... they just hold back their thoughts..

n the reason for holding back???? right there on ur post ;)
May 4, 2009 at 3:20 AM
"M" said…
But fear of losing our dear ones is what makes us realise that they are so important to us and we would be lost without them.. I guess living with fear maynot be the right way to live but one cannot do anything about it. Its just a fact of life...
May 6, 2009 at 5:25 AM
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